Friday, November 10, 2006

This Is Why I Don't Get Invited Places

This morning I had the honor of singing a couple of songs at a funeral. While I didn't know the woman who had passed away, based upon the recollections presented of her by friends and family members, she seemed like she was a nice enough person, one whose memory makes people smile absent smiles.

I sang two hymns, one of which I fairly well, and one that I knew really well. The first song went off without a hitch, but for some reason, partway through the last verse of the second song, I started singing an entirely wrong word which I quickly corrected. Nobody said anything about it, and people even told me that I sang well, but you just don't want to mess somebody's funeral up, you know?

In retrosect, it probably wasn't a huge deal, but at the time, I felt that it was on par with asking a larger but not pregnant woman if she were pregnant or like Ross claiming time and time again that he and Rachel were on a break. It's just something that you don't do.

Sigh. Oh well. So it goes.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

I had a similar situation at a funeral where I all of a sudden forgot the tune to Amazing Grace in the middle of the song.

Before I had to launch into the tune from "Gilligan's Island" (you know about that, right?) my brilliant pianist filled in the notes for me and no one had a clue. Except my friend Samer who just openly laughed.

If I had been there with you, I probably would have openly laughed at you too. (But in private, I don't need to pull a Mary Tyler Moore at the funeral. Wait-did I just totally date myself with that reference? Red, do you back me on this one?)

Why is this comment so long? What's wrong with me?

Kristy B said...

Backing you up, one of the funniest Mary Tyler Moore Episodes I've ever seen.